I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

2010 July 20

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I Like Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

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Whether you're celebrating your thousandth female orgasm, searching for your first, or cheering on your girlfriend or wife, women and men across the country agree: I Like Female Orgasm!

I Like Female Orgasm is crammed with all you want to know about the huge O, counting:

-How to have an orgasm during intercourse--and why most women don't
-Directions on finding your way to the G-spot
-Fussy advice on how to have your first orgasm
-Advice for better oral sex
-Tips on surfing waves of multiple orgasms (even if you ordinarily have just one)
-The truth about female ejaculation (yes, it exists!)
-Answers to your questions about vibrators, sex toys, piercings, and more
-The real deal on orgasms for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women
-An entire chapter for men on how to turn her on and get her off, plus tips for partners in every chapter

Solot and Miller have spoken to thousands of men and women and surveyed thousands more about their experiences with female orgasm. Here they share all that they've cultured--plus give you a sneak peek behind bedroom doors as women and men share their favorite moves, mistakes to avoid, and best "oh, yeah!" moments.

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Reviewed for Venus Envy by Shannon Pringle

Review Date: September 10, 2007

Reviewer: Shannon Pringle,

Book Review

I *Heart* Female Orgasm
By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller

Reviewed by Shannon Pringle for Venus Envy

The cover seduced me. On a simple white background were three black words and one red heart open with such simple enthusiasm that I was smitten at first sight. The title of the book read I Like Female Orgasm and I thought to myself, "Me too!" I am sure others will agree that this 3-15 seconds of unparalleled rapture is worthy of such a bold declaration.

I Like Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide is a fun, refreshing, demystifying and inclusive tour through the world of the female-bodied orgasm. Whether you are looking to have your first orgasm, are not sure if you have ever had an orgasm, are an orgasm enthusiast, or are a partner wanting to know more about women's orgasm, this book contains a wealth of in rank for you. There are a number of female orgasm books on the market, but this one captured my interest, beyond its frisky title, for its have a crack to be inclusive, in its approach and use of language, of people of diverse genders and sexual orientations. There is just so much information to be gained from people who experience their bodies and wishes another way from what you may be accustomed to, and I Like Female Orgasm underlines the similarities in the human sexual experience rather than the differences.

There are always new things to learn, myths to deconstruct, and shame to squelch surrounding women's sexuality, and Solot and Miller take on this challenge. They have included chapters on the psychology and physiology of orgasms, masturbation, cunnilingus, intercourse, the g-spot and female ejaculation, sex toys, men and female orgasm, queer orgasms, [...] play, and safer sex and birth power. Their thoroughness has left me somewhat daunted in how to approach this review, so I am going to write about what I like and cultured from I Like Female Orgasm.

I loved culture, in the chapter "The Inconsiderate on the Huge O," that the flat terrain phase of the female sexual rejoinder cycle can now and again last for what seems like an inordinately long time, but ordinarily, if the exciting stimulation continues, an orgasm can be reached. So for those out there who feel that taking a long time to come somehow means that they are defective, well it just isn't so. Solot's and Miller's part "Eight Lies You May Have Heard About Masturbation" is a refreshing reminder about how persistent these myths are in our polish, despite the advances of sex-clear feminism. And I Like Female Orgasm contains lots of tips on how to masturbate to orgasm for those who are new to it and for those wanting to change up an ancient normal.

The chapter "Going Down, Down Baby: Oral Sex and Female Orgasm" is fantastic for anyone going down on anyone with a clitoris, mainly if you cultured about the theater oral sex by watching mainstream porn. Mainstream porn, its sexual techniques and angles, are designed to turn on the viewer, not the participants, which makes it a poor model of how to in fact get off. For anyone who fears that they don't rate up to today's porn stars, I recommend the "Porn Alert" part for a reminder on what an artificially produced and surgically enhanced world it is.

I also appreciated the reminder that even if a person may have a sex partner they are still responsible for their own orgasm. This is Slott's and Miller's take-home point from the chapter on intercourse. It's not honest to place the burden of responsibility for your sexual pleasure on your partner, nor to blame them if you don't come. Penetrative intercourse, whether it is with a biological penis or a silicone dildo, is not physically well designed to yield female-bodied orgasms easily. Only 30 percent of female-bodied people will orgasm from intercourse alone; most will need to have some kind of clitoral stimulation to come. This fact of life does not reflect poorly on the interested partner, the penetrative partner, nor reduce the intimacy of the act, though we have been ethnically lead to believe if not.

I was delighted to see the two Venus Envy stores mentioned in the chapter of "Vibrators, Toys and Piercings, Oh My!" as part of a handful of North American, women-orientated, educationally based sex shops. The chapter also has some excellent thoughts for counting sex toys in partnered sex. Solot and Miller wrap up I Like Female Orgasm with some tips for being a fantastic lover: there's a chapter titled "Let's Here It For The Boys" that is on paper fundamentally for biological males who have been socialized as males and a fantastic chapter called "Coming with Pride" which includes lesbian sex advice and in rank about orgasms for transgendered and intersexed folks. I was so satisfied to see this last part as it is the first time I have seen this topic in a mainstream sex guide! I Like Female Orgasm was a fantastic read, and many times it made me want to have an orgasm, give a name and orgasm, and buy the tee-shirt!

The best sexual education book I have ever read!!

Review Date: June 26, 2007

Reviewer: Erik J. Hernandez, Harrisonburg, VA

I in fact picked up this book not since I was attracted in what
it had to say (I thought the book was going to be a joke), but
since the title of the book made me laugh. I flipped through a few
pages and chose that I certainly wanted to read some more into it.
I sat down in a chair with my girlfriend and without even realizing
it, read all of the first chapter. I have to say, I cultured more from
the first chapter of your book than I have from all of the books and
websites and references on sexuality that I have ever seen in my
life. I told my girlfriend that I HAD to have the book, so she bought
it for me. I read the entire book over the weekend. I made so many
footnotes, bookmarks, and had so many highlighted passages that it
looked like my institution textbooks. I have since shared the books with
my family, friends, and girlfriend, all of whom have loved it. Not
only has it increased my sexual awareness by about a bazillion, it
has also brought my sex life to a whole new level.

Informative and Fun

Review Date: April 17, 2008

Reviewer: tealrose39, MA, USA

I just expected my order of "I <3 Female Orgasm" today, and have been engaged ever since. The amount of in rank found in the approximately 300 page book is incredible, as well as incredibly well on paper. I like the way that when the authors now and again refer to a particular thought, they will also tell you the page number to get more detail about that thought. They also often recommend other books for more in rank. I also delight in the wonderful anecdotes and small quotes that are constantly interspersed within the book. I often laughed aloud while reading some of the tales. ^_^

This book is an all inclusive book about female sex, not just female orgasm, and is helpful on many levels. If you are the least bit attracted in females and sex place together, I certainly recommend this book for you to read and delight in.

Fantastic book for the new-to-moderately veteran. GENTLEMEN, START HERE.

Review Date: February 25, 2009

Reviewer: T. Hillendahl,

For women and (mainly) men on the quest to better their sex lives, this is the book. On a spree (and after a few hours of research), I bought this along with some Betty Dodson books and Rubel's "Squirms, Screams and Squirts," and I have to say: this was the best--for couples AND singles. I recommend ALL of these books, but if you're on a budget, start here. GENTLEMEN, START HERE: This book has the most fussy in rank on the G-spot I have found as of yet, and (aside from the aid of your partner) is doubtless the most likely candidate to help you find it.

Dodson seems to cover more of the psychological side (i.e. being paid over inhibitions, etc. to better delight in your own sexuality), and Rubel's was more of a specific "how-to" book (fantastic for thoughts, not always medically accurate); Solot and Miller's was a nice mix between the two, medically accurate and laid out in a very reader-oriented style. No slogging through 30-page, under- or over-fussy chapters in novel-sized print.

Pleased reading.

Long overdue!

Review Date: May 24, 2007

Reviewer: Kate, NC, USA

An brilliant store for both men and women! Well-on paper and very legible, this book is a very modern and comprehensive reference on female sexuality. It is open and nonjudgmental while providing a overabundance of solid in rank in a very conversational, non-threatening format that also manages to not be terribly overwhelming. I've recommended it to numerous of my patients who have all come back with not anything but lavish praise.

I particularly recommend this book in conjunction with The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse for women who are remedial from childhood sexual abuse or assault.

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